Wherever Rosemary Parisi goes in Mount Olive, she meets people who know her daughter, Gabriella.
GiGi, who has Down syndrome,was a year-round, general-education athlete at Mount Olive High School and Homecoming queen. She even appeared on a Times Square billboard, sponsored by the National Down Syndrome Society.
Sports have been key to GiGi's popularity, surprising even Rosemary, a special education teacher at MacKinnon Middle School in Wharton.
GiGi was part of the Mount Olive field hockey, basketball and softball teams alongside her neurotypical peers. She also participates with Mount Olive's Special Olympics Unified track and field program, which blends students with intellectual disabilities and neurotypical partners.
Unifiedclubs, teams and events often require lower time commitments than their general-education equivalents. But there are few limitations on what can be called Unified, or how inclusivethose programs should be.
David May of Morristown thinks Unified is more restrictive than promised by the Americans with Disabilities Act.
The ADAprohibits discrimination on the basis of disability. The relatedIndividuals with Disabilities Education Act makes free appropriate public education available to more than 7.5 million eligible children with disabilities in the least restrictive environment and ensures special education and related services.
May would prefer students with special needs to compete alongside gen-ed athletes on a single team.But Unified does not allow in-season varsity athletes to be team partners, so their background and experience with activities vary.
"All Unified has done is make it the most restrictive environment in the entire place," May said. "Some parents are just happy their kids are active, and don't have the nuance of what it means to be separated onto the Unified team and not connected to the other (gen-ed) team. ... It did give kids opportunities to play sports, but it is notthe least restrictive environment."
Autism never prevented Ryan May from being part of the Morristown swim team, which has included several swimmers with physical and intellectual disabilities over the years. David May packed breakfast and drove Ryan to 6 a.m. practice nearly every school day for six years.
Ryan participated in about half the meets during his high school career, wearing thesame burgundy suit and bright orange cap as everyone else on the roster.Between events, he usually cheeredon teammates from the end of the bleachers closest to the starting blocks. Ryan, who turns 24 in July, didn'ttalk much, but usually smiled and gave two thumbs up.
"What I tell parents who first get diagnosed, whether it's Down syndrome or autism or something else, 'You'll always be their parent. What you have to become is a crazed advocate,'" said May, co-foundedKids2Kids, a Morristown nonprofit that mentors children with special needs through activities led by neurotypical peers.
"If you have a special-needs kid, you realize very early on how isolated you are. They do not get invited to anything: birthday parties, events. ... It's so painful to not have these kids be involved in anything."
Special Olympics USA Games: West Milford runner goes viral on social media with last-second win
'Coolest part of sports': Players relish chance to represent Rutgers football at Special Olympics event
Great debut: Historic Unified swim meet brings community together
Trying to provide opportunities to a larger population of student-athletes, the New Jersey State Interscholastic Athletic Association announced a partnershipwith Special Olympics New Jersey at the Meet of Champions in June 2016. At the time, there were about 60 Unified Champion Schools, promotingacceptance, respect, and dignity for all students.
There are more than 250 in New Jersey now, and SONJ COO Bill DePonte hopes to have at least300 in the fall.
"Inclusion has been around a long time, and it means different things to different people," DePonte said. "For us, it's about engaging individuals of all abilities."
Champion Schools are supported through funding from the United States and New Jersey Department of Education, though DePonte said they're encouraged to become self-sufficient. SONJ grants support things like coachand club-advisor stipends, uniforms, travel, officials, and technology.
The NJSIAA currently sponsors Unified basketball and bowling in the winter, and spring track and field.Unified swimming will be added to the list this winter, with a mixed relay expected to be held duringthe NJSIAA Meet of Champions in March.
"It's cool to meet new people and get into different activities," said Pennsauken freshman Jeremiah Moses, who plans to try out for the soccer team in the fall.
"I bring good energy, good sportsmanship, just good vibes all around. We're like a huge family."
Sparta and Mount Olive were the top two large schools at the inaugural free-standing NJSIAA Unified Track and Field Championships on June 8 at Franklin High School. Morristown won the small-school division.
In past years, the handful of Unified events were mixed into the Group championships schedule, dividing teams into multiple sites.
"After 50 years of being in business, Special Olympics knows it needs to do better," Voorhees High School assistant principal Kelly Ann Kieffer, assistant principal at Voorhees High School,the first in New Jersey to be recognized as a national Unified Champion School.
"Unified is a way to do that. The students I'm supporting would not be able to do sports or be in the play without Unified. ... We have some significant (disabled) students, and they would not be able to access the least restrictive environment, not for a second. Our main objective is every student should be able to access their high school experience to the best of their ability."
Rosemary Parisi said GiGi"flourished" once she got to high school because of sports. Sheloved field hockey so much, Rosemary bought her a stick, balls and a net to practice in the family's yard. She scored 150 points in her basketball career, getting into both varsity and JV games "if they're winning big or losing big," according to Rosemary Parisi.
GiGi got into softball three years ago, and though she rarely got into a game due to safety concerns, Rosemary Parisi said "her role is being in the dugout, cheering on all the girls, helping the coach (BillRomano) when he gets too stressed."
"It takes a lot to be on a gen ed team: a lot of stamina, understanding, good behavior, good health," Rosemary Parisi said. "You have to have a coach who supports it. You have to have an aide in the background should anything happen. If there are health issues, people have to be trained. We all worked very hard to make it happen. GiGi is the poster child for inclusion in a sports team, but that's just because we struck it right. Not everybody can do that."
GiGi is now 22, and just graduated from Mount Olive High School. Rosemary Parisi hopes her daughter can volunteer asa peer mentor or coach for the Unified programin the fall to keep "the camaraderie of a team."
That's one thing Michael McCloskey was seeking when he joined the cross country, bowling and spring track teams at West Milford High School. But when he tried out for Team New Jersey ahead of the Special Olympics USA Games, Gina McCloskey told her son, "This is your time to shine. This is your place."
Michael McCloskey, a sophomore who has autism and a seizure disorder,wound up on ESPN's social-media feeds after a last-second comeback in his heat of the 1,500 meters on June 7.
For three weeksleading up to the USA Games, McCloskey went from gen-ed track practice to Special Olympics practice on Tuesdays and Thursdays often accompanied at both by senior Chase Appell and junior Wyatt Space, longtime West Milford Unified partners. On Sundays, Gina McCloskey drove her son and Destiny Geretyof Hewitt to two-hour Team New Jersey practices in Point Pleasant.
"Special Olympics gives everyone a place to be themselves, completely. You don't have to put on any kind of show for anyone else," said West Milford Special Olympics coach Kristi Clave, who teaches multiple disabilities classes at Maple Road Elementary in West Milford.
"Unified changes cultures if you do it right. If you find a couple of really great kids, and a couple of partners who are not involved in anything ... you put them on that team, and you give them purpose. You will change their lives. Not just the kids with special needs, but those kids who never felt needed and never felt loved, it will make them all a part of something."
Jane Havsyis a storyteller for the Daily Record andDailyRecord.com, part of the USA TODAY Network. For full access to live scores, breaking news and analysis,subscribe today.
Want to share your story with me?
Email:JHavsy@gannett.comTwitter:@dailyrecordspts
The rest is here:
Special Olympics Unified sports: Are they inclusive enough? - Daily Record
- Regan Smith: The Triumphs, Setbacks, Pressures and Emotions of Her First Olympics - Swimming World Magazine [Last Updated On: August 22nd, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 22nd, 2021]
- Russian officials accuse United States, other countries of rigging 2020 Tokyo Olympics - CBS Sports [Last Updated On: August 22nd, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 22nd, 2021]
- The Surprising Relief of the Tokyo Olympics - The New Yorker [Last Updated On: August 22nd, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 22nd, 2021]
- Lacrosse Returns to Olympics in 2028but Will the Sport's Indigenous Founders Be Allowed to Play? - Foreign Policy [Last Updated On: August 22nd, 2021] [Originally Added On: August 22nd, 2021]
- Agreement reached for NHL players to participate in 2022 Olympics in Beijing - ESPN [Last Updated On: September 8th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 8th, 2021]
- About the Olympic Games [Last Updated On: September 8th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 8th, 2021]
- Summer Olympic Games - Wikipedia [Last Updated On: September 8th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 8th, 2021]
- Which Nashville Predators might be headed to the Olympics? - On The Forecheck [Last Updated On: September 16th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 16th, 2021]
- Team GB set to lose 4x100m Olympic silver after second positive for Ujah - The Guardian [Last Updated On: September 16th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 16th, 2021]
- Gary Woodland surprises friend Amy Bockerstette with Special Olympics USA Games selection - 'Amy, you got this' - ESPN [Last Updated On: September 16th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 16th, 2021]
- An Olympics like no other: Four alums reflect on their experiences in Tokyo - The Williams record [Last Updated On: September 16th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 16th, 2021]
- 35. Three Jazz Players After The Olympics - KSL Sports [Last Updated On: September 16th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 16th, 2021]
- Simone Biles details how Nassar's abuse impacted Tokyo Olympics: 'I never should have been left alone' - Fox News [Last Updated On: September 16th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 16th, 2021]
- From the Basement | US should boycott 2022 Olympic Games - Tulane Hullabaloo [Last Updated On: September 16th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 16th, 2021]
- Which Bruins could play at the 2022 Beijing Olympics? - NBC Sports Boston [Last Updated On: September 16th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 16th, 2021]
- Track queen Harmilan Kaur--hate, love and a burning Olympic dream - Hindustan Times [Last Updated On: September 20th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 20th, 2021]
- From the Archives, 2000: Freeman rival Perec flees the Sydney Olympics - The Age [Last Updated On: September 20th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 20th, 2021]
- Olympic Team Gold and Individual Silver Medallist Tom McEwen's Top - United States Eventing Association [Last Updated On: September 20th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 20th, 2021]
- Kobe Bryant Once Told an Olympic Gold Medalist That He Would Sometimes Just Chuck the Ball Toward the Basket and Get Surprised Whenever It Went In: It... [Last Updated On: September 20th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 20th, 2021]
- Cornelius Denies Bullying Incidents That Led To His Removal From Olympics Ceremony - Stereogum [Last Updated On: September 20th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 20th, 2021]
- Road to Canada's Olympic curling trials crowded in Ottawa tournaments - CBC.ca [Last Updated On: September 20th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 20th, 2021]
- Did Usain Bolt Ever Lose a Race at the Olympics? - EssentiallySports [Last Updated On: September 20th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 20th, 2021]
- ATEEZ Responds To Olympic Volleyball Star Kim Hee Jin Revealing She's A Fan + Naming The Song That Meant A Lot To Her At Tokyo Olympics - soompi [Last Updated On: September 20th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 20th, 2021]
- Simone Biles says burdens of Nassar abuse remained with her at Olympics - The Guardian [Last Updated On: September 20th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 20th, 2021]
- Which Capitals could play at the 2022 Beijing Olympics? - NBC Sports [Last Updated On: September 20th, 2021] [Originally Added On: September 20th, 2021]
- The first Olympic womens hockey qualifying tournaments are here - The Ice Garden [Last Updated On: October 7th, 2021] [Originally Added On: October 7th, 2021]
- Who is Kye Whyte? Dancing on Ice 2022 contestant and Tokyo Olympics BMX star... - The US Sun [Last Updated On: October 7th, 2021] [Originally Added On: October 7th, 2021]
- Gabriel could've made Olympics but prioritised Arsenal & the long-term - Daily Cannon [Last Updated On: October 7th, 2021] [Originally Added On: October 7th, 2021]
- On path to Beijing Olympics, U.S. women's hockey team makes it's home at the Super Rink in Blaine - Minneapolis Star Tribune [Last Updated On: October 7th, 2021] [Originally Added On: October 7th, 2021]
- Erik Tait ready to represent North America at the Olympics of magic - Columbus Alive [Last Updated On: October 7th, 2021] [Originally Added On: October 7th, 2021]
- 46 Special Olympics Teams Compete In Soccer Tournament In Owasso - News On 6 [Last Updated On: October 7th, 2021] [Originally Added On: October 7th, 2021]
- Auston Matthews, Patrick Kane, and Seth Jones Named to Team USA 2022 Winter Olympic Roster - bleachernation.com [Last Updated On: October 7th, 2021] [Originally Added On: October 7th, 2021]
- Two Winter Olympics Underdogs That Have Already Won - The New York Times [Last Updated On: October 7th, 2021] [Originally Added On: October 7th, 2021]
- Winter Olympics 2022: Everything you need to know about Beijing Games - USA TODAY [Last Updated On: October 7th, 2021] [Originally Added On: October 7th, 2021]
- David Robertson's Journey from the Olympics to the Rays' Postseason Roster - The New York Times [Last Updated On: October 15th, 2021] [Originally Added On: October 15th, 2021]
- Duhatschek notebook: Team Canada Olympic roster predictions updated, revisiting the Pavel Datsyuk trade - The Athletic [Last Updated On: October 15th, 2021] [Originally Added On: October 15th, 2021]
- Olympic runner Agnes Tirop's husband arrested in her killing - CBS News [Last Updated On: October 15th, 2021] [Originally Added On: October 15th, 2021]
- Olympic BMX champion reveals the life lessons she learned from her part-time job - CNBC [Last Updated On: October 15th, 2021] [Originally Added On: October 15th, 2021]
- The Olympics Might Be The Biggest Thing, But They're Not The Only thing - Runner's Tribe [Last Updated On: October 15th, 2021] [Originally Added On: October 15th, 2021]
- Tracking all the NHL players selected to Olympic hockey rosters - NBC Olympics [Last Updated On: October 15th, 2021] [Originally Added On: October 15th, 2021]
- The LA Olympics Are Being Planned Behind Closed Doors - The Nation [Last Updated On: October 15th, 2021] [Originally Added On: October 15th, 2021]
- Bobsledder Humphries left Canada over alleged abuse. The move might cost her an Olympics. - Yahoo! Voices [Last Updated On: October 17th, 2021] [Originally Added On: October 17th, 2021]
- Fictional detective Olympics: The oldest, the best, the most murdery - Mashable [Last Updated On: October 17th, 2021] [Originally Added On: October 17th, 2021]
- Simone Biles Reflects On Withdrawal From Tokyo Olympics - ELLE.com [Last Updated On: October 17th, 2021] [Originally Added On: October 17th, 2021]
- An Idea Whose Time Has Come: Bring the Olympics Home - The National Herald [Last Updated On: October 17th, 2021] [Originally Added On: October 17th, 2021]
- Pensacola Race for Inclusion aims to end discrimination against people with disabilities - Pensacola News Journal [Last Updated On: October 19th, 2021] [Originally Added On: October 19th, 2021]
- 100 Days to the Beijing Winter Olympics - NBC Bay Area [Last Updated On: October 19th, 2021] [Originally Added On: October 19th, 2021]
- Will this be Shaun White's last Winter Olympics? Maybe. Or maybe not. - USA TODAY [Last Updated On: October 19th, 2021] [Originally Added On: October 19th, 2021]
- Protestors disrupt flame lighting for Beijing Winter Games - Associated Press [Last Updated On: October 19th, 2021] [Originally Added On: October 19th, 2021]
- Curious Alaska: Will Anchorage try to host the Winter Olympics again? - Anchorage Daily News [Last Updated On: October 19th, 2021] [Originally Added On: October 19th, 2021]
- All US Winter Olympic hopefuls must be fully vaccinated by Dec. 1 if they want to compete in Beijing - The Boston Globe [Last Updated On: November 13th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 13th, 2021]
- 2022 Republican primaries: Who will take gold in the Misogyny Olympics? - Salon [Last Updated On: November 13th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 13th, 2021]
- 7 questions with Olympian Allyson Felix about entrepreneurship, pay equity and the future - Milwaukee Journal Sentinel [Last Updated On: November 13th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 13th, 2021]
- Chambers: Highlands Ranch native Troy Terry is red hot for Anaheim Ducks. He might don red, white and blue in upcoming Olympics - The Denver Post [Last Updated On: November 13th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 13th, 2021]
- Augmented reality project brings Olympics birthplace to life - The Indian Express [Last Updated On: November 13th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 13th, 2021]
- The popularity of curling; how the Winter Olympics bring attention to the niche sport - The Denver Channel [Last Updated On: November 13th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 13th, 2021]
- Nine years later, the U.S. has another Olympic gold - MARCA.com [Last Updated On: November 13th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 13th, 2021]
- How to watch the U.S. Olympic Team Curling Trials - NBC Olympics [Last Updated On: November 13th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 13th, 2021]
- UND great Bill Reichart, captain of the 1964 US Olympic team, dies at age 86 - Grand Forks Herald [Last Updated On: November 17th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 17th, 2021]
- 'It feels so surreal' - Olympic silver medallist Mallory Franklin looks back at Tokyo and adds medals to collection - Eurosport.com [Last Updated On: November 17th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 17th, 2021]
- Special Olympics Inc. Partners with Smartsheet to Unlock Collaboration, Helping Them Achieve More for Athletes Across the Globe - Yahoo Finance [Last Updated On: November 17th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 17th, 2021]
- Inside Shaun White's Unbelievable Ride to His 5th Winter Olympics - E! Online [Last Updated On: November 17th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 17th, 2021]
- Five Players Forcing Their Way Onto the 2022 Olympic Roster Bubble - Sports Illustrated [Last Updated On: November 17th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 17th, 2021]
- Steamboat freeskiers have chance to compete in 2022 Winter Olympics - Steamboat Pilot & Today [Last Updated On: November 17th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 17th, 2021]
- Will Covid-19 Jeopardize The NHLs 2022 Winter Olympics Participation? - Forbes [Last Updated On: November 17th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 17th, 2021]
- Covid Rules for Beijing Olympics Force Injured Athlete to Fly Home on Cargo Plane - The New York Times [Last Updated On: November 17th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 17th, 2021]
- Biden Meets With Canadas Trudeau and Mexicos Lpez Obrador - The New York Times [Last Updated On: November 19th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 19th, 2021]
- The International Olympic Committee Is Finally Advocating for Trans and Intersex Athletes - Jezebel [Last Updated On: November 19th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 19th, 2021]
- Autocrats and the Spineless Olympics Committee - The Bulwark [Last Updated On: November 19th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 19th, 2021]
- Chinese Hockey Team Loses Another Game in Test for Olympics - Sports Illustrated [Last Updated On: November 19th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 19th, 2021]
- Tokyo Olympics bronze medallist wrestler Bajrang Punia ... [Last Updated On: November 19th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 19th, 2021]
- Eyeing LA Olympics, ICC likely to award 2024 T20 World Cup ... [Last Updated On: November 19th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 19th, 2021]
- Sport climbing debut in Olympics creates spike in participation - AZ Big Media [Last Updated On: November 21st, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 21st, 2021]
- Is Shaun White Going To The Beijing Winter Olympics 2022? - EssentiallySports [Last Updated On: November 21st, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 21st, 2021]
- Its my own fault: Rory Sabbatini on his weird DQ, Olympic medal and Tigers comeback - Golf.com [Last Updated On: November 27th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 27th, 2021]
- Gold medalist Linoy Ashram on her Olympic whirlwind and becoming an Israeli icon - The Times of Israel [Last Updated On: November 27th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 27th, 2021]
- "It was insane" - Vincent Luis on the Brownlees and London 2012 - Tri247.com [Last Updated On: November 27th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 27th, 2021]
- Kayla Harrison next fight: Making the case for the Olympic gold medalist to sign with UFC, Bellator or PFL - CBSSports.com [Last Updated On: November 27th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 27th, 2021]
- AIBA reforms push to secure boxings Olympic future; polls in 2022, liaison officer to work with IOC - Firstpost [Last Updated On: November 27th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 27th, 2021]
- Man with Alexandria connection competes in Olympic curling trials - Echo Press [Last Updated On: November 27th, 2021] [Originally Added On: November 27th, 2021]