Just Walk On By by Carolyn Tucker – FortScott.Biz

Keys to the Kingdom

I could tell you stuff about her that would make your hair curl! (Please dont.) You wont believe what I just heard about him! (No, I wont.) Sometimes we find ourselves in conversations against our will. It starts innocently enough, but quickly heads south and turns into gossip. I hate gossip as much as I love chocolate. Hearing juicy tidbits about others makes me want to dig a hole and crawl in. I know of a godly man that wouldnt listen to gossip. He would simply walk away without saying anything. I think his silent response and gentle actions spoke louder than any words.

Mom used to wisely advise me, You dont have to tell everything you know. I often think of the New Testament scripture about Jesus mother: All who heard the shepherds story were astonished, but Mary kept all these things in her heart and thought about them often (Luke 2:18,19 NLT). Mary pondered things in her heart; she mulled it over, meditated on it, carefully thought about it. She kept it to herself because the things she had witnessed were too personal and treasured to share. Occasionally, some experiences are so amazing that we are left speechless.

Gossip can be defined as undisciplined or idle talk about an individuals private affairs involving details that are not confirmed as being true. However, even if the intriguing details are true, if you truly love your neighbor as yourself, you should choose not to share the hurtful newsflash. The Golden Rule, Do unto others as you would have them do unto you, would apply here. If you are sensible you will control your temper. When someone wrongs you, it is a great virtue to ignore it (Proverbs 19:11 GNT). Gods way is to overlook a wrong and not blab it (which could possibly destroy the persons reputation).

Instead of setting our radar for gossip, lets challenge ourselves to see how many people we can build up, encourage, and compliment every day through our words. Reach out in love and concern to help alleviate tough situations for others. So encourage each other and build each other up, just as you are already doing (1 Thessalonians 5:11 NLT).

A gossip (intentionally or unintentionally) creates mischief in society. A gossip goes around telling secrets, but those who are trustworthy can keep a confidence (Proverbs 11:13 NLT). I want to be a confidential friend who can be trusted with someones heartache. I dont want to be guilty of James 1:26 NLT: If you claim to be religious but dont control your tongue, you are fooling yourself, and your religion is worthless. The way we treat and speak about others reveals the true condition of our heart.

On the flip side of gossip, lets use our words to build up those that have been flattened by lifes steamroller. Let us think of ways to motivate one another to acts of love and good works (Hebrews 10:23 NLT). We can use our tongues to spur one another on. Positive reinforcement is all some people need in order to believe they can do the seemingly impossible. Words of encouragement can change everything. Lets go for it!

The Key: When someone says, Im not supposed to tell this, but, its time to dig a hole or put on your walking shoes.

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Just Walk On By by Carolyn Tucker - FortScott.Biz