Opinion | I Didnt Think My Mother Would Escape Putin Twice – The New York Times

When I finally talked her into leaving, we were too late: Russian troops had taken over Bucha. The first reports about locals being slaughtered by Russian soldiers started appearing; I could not stop picturing my mother as the next victim. I saw photographs of places Id been to with my mother like a shopping mall near her apartment that had been demolished. I told her not to leave the basement of her building, if possible, but she didnt listen. Only when she came under heavy shelling while shopping for groceries did she stop going out. Shes always been stubborn.

For the next 10 days, she stayed in that basement. There was no electricity or heating, and she was running out of food and water. It was terrifying: Artillery fired nonstop while Russian tanks parked next to her building. When her neighbor tried to take a picture, he was shot luckily, he survived but his apartment was ruined. Not long after, Russian soldiers visited the building: They inspected residents homes, checked passports and took away mobile SIM cards. (My mother, in a remarkable flash of cunning, gave them the wrong one so she could keep in touch with me.)

The ordeal was intolerable. My mother, hungry, exhausted and frightened, finally agreed to leave. Two days later, on March 10, she managed it, escaping through a humanitarian corridor to Kyiv. She was shaken up when I met her. I covered her in all the duvets and blankets I had and put her to bed. But in the night, I could hear her groaning. When I asked her what she was dreaming about, she said that the Russians were torturing her. It was the sign of a trauma that will stay with her for a long while.

The next day I put her on a train to safety. Shes now in western Ukraine, staying with some relatives, an internally displaced person once again. She lost her job and her home, twice. Yet shes lucky to be alive, unlike hundreds of her neighbors buried in Buchas mass graves. They join at least 1,964 other civilians whose lives have been extinguished by Russian force.

Bucha itself, or rather what is left of it, is free now. Russian troops withdrew from Kyivs environs by April 6. Theyre redeploying to the east, where a battle for the Donbas lies in store. The war, which began in the east eight years ago, is returning there for its culmination. Given Russias brutality which now extends to the possible use of chemical weapons in besieged Mariupol its likely to be a terrible contest.

For Ukrainians, it will be the latest installment of horror. But the country, like my family, is standing strong. East and west, displaced and not, Ukrainians have acted with bravery and resilience. No matter what Russia does to us, we refuse to be beaten.

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