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Daily Archives: August 11, 2017
Trance legends Orjan Nilsen and Andrew Rayel host episode of a A State Of Trance ! – Rave Jungle (press release) (subscription) (blog)
Posted: August 11, 2017 at 6:26 pm
A mere week after Ferry Corstens A State Of Trance takeover, two other Trance icons have hosted a new episode of Armin van Buurens world-renowned radio show.
Both Andrew Rayel and rjan Nilsen have filled in for the five-time #1 DJ in the world, Armin van Buuren, during the second week of his holiday and premiered some of their own new tracks live during tonights 826thepisode of A State Of Trance, all next to a gamut of Trance gems that made fans go wild.
In addition to the inclusion of Andrew RayelsNever Let Me Go (feat. Angelika Vee)and Orjan Nilsens Hi There Radio,Drowning (feat. IDA)andSwoosh, Andrew Rayel also seized the opportunity to share some great news with his fans. Live on air, he announced his own label called In Harmony and premiered the imprints first release: Mass Effect
Check out the full takeover of A State Of Trance episode 826 below !
01. Eelke Kleijn feat. Therese Shed My Skin (Eelke Kelijn Remix) 02. Andrew Lloyd Webber Phantom Of The Opera (Driftmoon Rework) 03. Jochen Miller feat. JES Head On (Progressive Festival Mix) 04. Khomha Laberinto 05. Marco V Its Black (Extended Mix) 06. Andrew Rayel Mass Effect 07. Sheridan Grout Escape 08. Andrew Rayel feat. Angelika Vee Never Let Me Go 09. Above & Beyond feat. Marty Longstaff Tightrope 10. Armin van Buuren & Garibay feat. Olaf Blackwood I Need You (Andrew Rayel Remix) 11. DJ Feel Prince Of Persia 12. Gaia Saint Vitus 13. Heatbeat Meteora 14. Art Of Trance Madagascar (Simon Lee & Alvin Remix) 15. Andrew Rayel Aeon Of Revenge
16. Joonas Hahmo x K-System Maan 17. Seven Lions & Jason Ross Higher Love (Grum Remix) 19. rjan Nilsen Hi There Radio 21. Beatsole Before I Wake 22. rjan Nilsen feat. IDA Drowning 23. rjan Nilsen Swoosh 24. Deem Origins 25. Johan Gielen & Tatana End Of Time (Johan Gielen Remix) 26. Sean Tyas Lift (Sean Tyas Remix) 27. Selu Vibra Divine 28. rjan Nilsen Burana
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Kyau and Albert speak Matching Stories – Trance Hub (satire) (press release) (blog)
Posted: at 6:26 pm
With over two decades of work on their side, Kyau and Albert are names that every trance fan is familiar with. As their release their 5th studio album, Matching stories and also happen to complete 20 years with their record label Euphonic,we sit down with them and discuss everything from music to tours and plans ahead.
1) Hi! Firstly, congratulations on the release of Matching Stories! Its you fifth studio album! How does it feel having released it?
Ralph Kyau: Really happy that the album is out. It was a lot of work and also hard choice to select the tracks for the final album. We did much more demos as we finally took on the album. Dont know exact number but guess we made almost 50 demos over 1.5 years.
MATCHING STORIES is out today <3 <3 <3 Get CD at http://shop.euphonic.de + Digital/stream at https://euphonic.lnk.to/EUPH244
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2) What was the idea behind naming the album Matching Stories?
Steven Albert: We had a couple of name ideas for the album and Matching Stories pretty much tells what we mean with choosing the final 14 tracks from so many tracks we produced for the album.
3) How have your fans responded to the album until now? Has it matched your expectations?
Ralph Kyau: Were excited about the response from our fans about the album, especially about the German vocal tracks like Mein Herz.
Steven Albert: It is the first time that I sing in my mother tongue. There are 2 tracks and all of my German friends love it. Not sure if it is for our fans who dont speak German, but I havent heard any negative feedback. We have all lyrics in the CD booklet, so people can read and learn some German, haha.
4) We see you experimenting and being open to do a lot more vocal collaborations in this album. How did it all happen?
Ralph Kyau: Our plan was to make the album diverse with female vocalists while listening and set a contrast to Stevens male voice. We wanted to have some female vocalists who didt worked at too many Trance releases before.
5) Love letter from the future, your collaboration with Adaja Black, narrates a love story that wasnt successful. What inspired the track? Is it based on a real-life story or experience?
Steven Albert: Adaja Black wrote the lyrics to an instrumental we sent her.
6) Which artist/vocalist did you look forward to collaborating with the most?
Ralph Kyau: I was really interested to work with Adaja again. She was on our last 2 albums before and we like her alot, also we were really interested to work with Jeza for the first time as we always loved her voice. Started to work with Jeza end of last year. The contact to Madeleine Wood came through Francesco Sambero, who both worked with us on one track of the album called Gamla Stan.
7) If you had to pick one track from Matching stories to which you were most connected to, which track would it be?
Steven Albert: I love the album in whole, every track is a story for me.
8) With the album having come out, can we expect an album tour to follow soon? Which cities would you be looking forward to performing at?
Ralph Kyau: We kicked off the album tour in early June with a 6 hour set at Avalon Hollywood and will still tour around the world till early 2018. For all dates best to check kyauandalbert.com or our socials.
9) You have released your 5th artist album and your record label, Euphonic records also completes 20 years this year! Two milestone events in your career! How are you celebrating both? And how does it feel to have achieved so much?
Steven Albert: As the artist album is finished we plan now two E.P.s under 20 years Euphonic and an album end of the year.
Ralph Kyau: Right now were updating our 10 year old remix for 6am by Cressida. Additional a few label acts do remixes for big Euphonic classics. All these remixes to be featured under 20 years Euphonic. For example remixer names here are Beatsole, Stoneface & Terminal, Johnny Yono, Maywave, Steve Brian pres Cabriolet Paris.
10) What does the future have in store for Kyau & Albert and Euphonic? Any big releases or news?
Steven Albert: New originals soon by Beatsole, Steve Brian and Maywave. But much more planned.
Ralph Kyau: Our collab Changes with Hello Machines gets a single soon, also Mein Herz gets a single including a Trance remix. Furthermore, were doing a collab with our long term label mate Ronski Speed right now. This one is getting huge! Release later this year.
Thank you so much for your time! And all the best for all your future endeavours!
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Album link: Matching Stories:album CD&Digital/stream
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‘Deadpool’s Tim Miller To Helm ‘Neuromancer’; Fox Lands William Gibson Cyberpunk Tale – Deadline
Posted: at 6:25 pm
EXCLUSIVE: Back when Deadline revealed that Deadpool helmer Tim Miller had dropped out of the sequel of his hit movie over creative differences, Fox insiders said the studio would work hard to make sure that it found a major project for Miller and his VFX studio Blur to build from the ground up. Theyve found one: Neuromancer, the classic cyberpunk novel by William Gibson. Simon Kinberg will produce.
The studio will soon set a writer to adapt a tale that has drawn the interest of several filmmakers in the past. The logline: Case was one of the best console cowboys until he stole from one of his employers, who in turn damaged his nervous system so that he cannot access cyberspace anymore. Broke and destroying himself, Case is contacted by Molly, a heavily modified razorgirl, to work for a shadowy colonel who needs a cyberspace cowboy for a secret mission. The employer fixes Cases damaged brain, but implants a slow dissolving poison to make sure the cyberspace wiz does his bidding, in attempting to abduct a perverse psychopath who is able to create holograms with the force of his mind.
This is the second project that Miller has set at Fox; Mark Bomback is writingInflux, an adaptation of the Daniel Suarez novel that is expected to launch a film trilogy. Millers attention right now is on the resurrection of The Terminator franchise that he is teamed on creatively with creator James Cameron. That film is expected to start production next spring. Right now, they have a writers room with several scribes figuring out where to take the Skynet saga that Cameron hatched in 1984. The film is a major part of this weeks new deal between Paramount Pictures and Skydance.
Miller is repped by WME, Anonymous Content and attorney Gregory Slewett of Bloom Hergott.
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What are Technical Machines in Pokmon GO (TMs)? – Tech Advisor
Posted: at 6:23 pm
Tech Advisor | What are Technical Machines in Pokmon GO (TMs)? Tech Advisor Prior to TMs, you were forced to roll the dice when evolving your Pokmon and praying that it would get the best moveset available. That's because they're allocated at random and in no way based on what your Pokmon had before you evolved it. |
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TMW Systems appoints new senior director, product management – Fleet Owner
Posted: at 6:23 pm
Jay Delaney has joined TMW Systems as senior director of product management. Delaneys primary area of responsibility will be the TMW.Suite transportation management software (TMS) platform, where he will direct product strategy and lead the companys Product Advisory Council (PAC).
Delaney comes to TMW from Hub Group, Oak Brook., IL, where as director of application development he assisted in the selection, integration and development of trucking management software, mobile applications and other solutions. He began his career in 1988 as a technology support supervisor for United Parcel Service in Atlanta. He served that company over the next 13 years in multiple roles of increasing responsibility, including director of IT development. Delaney subsequently held leadership positions with Cendian, DHL and Schneider National, TMW Systems noted.
With his proven expertise in designing, implementing and managing industry-leading solutions, Jay will be an invaluable asset to TMW and the thousands of businesses that rely on our TMS products, said Ray West, senior vice president and general manager, TMW. He will play a key role in expanding the product roadmap for the TMW.Suite platform and oversee a variety of strategic initiatives focused on helping carriers, third-party logistics providers and brokers leverage our technology for clear and sustained competitive advantage.
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Options Traders Expect Huge Moves in CF Industries Holdings (CF) Stock – Nasdaq
Posted: at 6:22 pm
Investors in CF Industries Holdings, Inc. CF need to pay close attention to the stock based on moves in the options market lately. That is because the August 18 th , 2017 $22.50 Call had some of the highest implied volatility of all equity options today.
What is Implied Volatility?
Implied volatility shows how much movement the market is expecting in the future. Options with high levels of implied volatility suggest that investors in the underlying stocks are expecting a big move in one direction or the other. It could also mean there is an event coming up soon that may cause a big rally or a huge sell off. However, implied volatility is only one piece of the puzzle when putting together an options trading strategy.
What do the Analysts Think?
Clearly, options traders are pricing in a big move for CF Industries Holdings shares, but what is the fundamental picture for the company? Currently, CF Industries Holdings is a Zacks Rank #4 (Sell) in the Fertilizers industry that ranks in the Bottom 33% of our Zacks Industry Rank. Over the last 60 days, no analysts have increased their earnings estimates for the current quarter, while four has dropped their estimates. The net effect has taken our Zacks Consensus Estimate for the current quarter from a loss of 23 cents per share to a loss of 51 cents in that period.
Given the way analysts feel about CF Industries Holdings right now, this huge implied volatility could mean there's a trade developing. Often times, options traders look for options with high levels of implied volatility to sell premium. This is a strategy many seasoned traders use because it captures decay. At expiration, the hope for these traders is that the underlying stock does not move as much as originally expected.
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Beautify CF leader quits amid fight over signs – Myhorrynews
Posted: at 6:22 pm
Richard Skrip cleaned up Carolina Forest.
Now the beautification group he founded will have to carry on that work without his leadership.
Skrip resigned as president of Beautify Carolina Forest last month after a heated dispute with local real estate agents over open house signs, the groups volunteers said.
The disagreement grew so intense that someone went to Skrips house on July 24 and yelled at him for picking up the signs, according to an Horry County police report.
Skrip told the officer he and other Beautify Carolina Forest volunteers had removed the signs because they were illegally placed in the right of way, the report said. The other person involved was not identified in the report.
No one was arrested in the incident and the officer said he would look into whether any county policies were violated.
In an email to the Chronicle, Skrip did not elaborate on his reasons for leaving the organization he built, though he offered encouragement for those still involved with it.
The volunteers deserve support from the community and its leaders to continue beautification efforts, Skrip said.
I believe we set the groundwork over the past three years to improve the appearance of Carolina Forest and hope that others have been inspired to continue to beautify this community.
The remaining members said the departure of Skrip, who had been the groups president, and his wife Cindy will leave a tremendous void.
Rich and Cindy have made Carolina Forest a better and cleaner place to live with their tireless work, said Betsy Fay, one of the volunteers with Beautify Carolina Forest. They will both be missed, and I hope in the future they will be back as volunteers.
The Skrips started mowing the grass around the medians on Carolina Forest Boulevard after the local property owners association dissolved, Fay said.
Initially, they worked alone. But when people began asking questions about the couple cutting the grass, other volunteers came forward.
In 2014, the Skrips formed a beautification committee for the Carolina Forest Civic Association. Eventually, they founded the nonprofit, Beautify Carolina Forest.
The organization began hosting monthly litter cleanups, obtained state grants for planting crape myrtles, replaced the lighting on the big green Carolina Forest sign, and began sprucing up the communitys neglected gateways.
Through all this, Richard and Cindy were there, said Beautify Carolina Forest volunteer Dan Kniola. Without their diligent scheduling and messaging, this effort might have fallen apart.
Kniola met Richard Skrip through the civic association. Like Skrip, he was a retiree and he agreed picking up litter would be a worthwhile use of his time. He was impressed with Skrips organizational skills, how he sent out reminders, made sure there were always enough gloves, vests and bags for everyone, and made sure new volunteers signed the proper forms.
He watched as the organization grew to more than 70 volunteers.
Richard is driven, Kniola said.
Carol Franceski, Beautify Carolina Forests secretary, agrees. After Skrips resignation, she posted her praise on Facebook.
I am sure most [people] dont know what goes into dealing with the county to get things accomplished and approved,she wrote. It is a head banging job.
Franceski credits Skrip with highlighting the appearance problems in Carolina Forest.
The biggest accomplishment is making all the residents of CF aware of our area and the need to keep it clean and beautiful, she said.
Skrips effort to clear up illegal signs had been going on for years. Small markers would litter medians and get shredded by lawnmowers. Some ended up in the street.
County policy prohibits those signs from being left in the right of way, but county leaders have allowed real estate agents to put up open house signs on the weekends as long as they remove them before the work week begins.
It was just an unwritten rule: If yall pick them up after youre done with them on Sundays, we wont give you a hard time about it, Horry County Councilman Johnny Vaught said. Live and let live.
Vaught had hoped there could be a compromise.
Per county policy, the county should have been removing the signs, not the volunteers.
Vaught said he wouldnt have cared if the volunteers had hauled off the signs on weekdays, but the problem was county officials had given permission to real estate agents to place the signs on weekends, the same time the cleanup groups were out.
They were both doing what they thought they could do, he said.
Some of the remaining Beautify volunteers are upset with the way the county handled the situation. Theyre also disappointed about losing Skrip.
It is sad that a resource valuable to the county and the community is struck down while beraters become the apparent winners in a game where presumably all residents should win, Kniola said. If we can hold this together, it wont have the impetus it once did.
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Volume Moving the Tape For CF Industries Holdings Inc (CF) – Morgan Research
Posted: at 6:22 pm
Shares of CF Industries Holdings Inc (CF) have seen the needle move 0.76% or 0.23 in the most recent session. The NYSE listed companysaw a recent bid of 30.69 on 513521 volume.
Investors may be trying to decide if the current market environment remains bullish. It can be extremely difficult to decide when to sell, especially when data seems positive and most signs are pointing higher. Jumping in to buy stocks on a pullback may seem like a good idea, but following specific sectors may become increasingly more important. Following long-term trends may help the investor see the bigger picture of what has been going on with a specific stock or sector. Deciding to sell a winner after a big run can be tempting, but knowing the underlying causes for the run may help identify if there may indeed be more room for gains. Avoiding common investing pitfalls may take many years to master, but it may end up determining long-term success.
Now letstake a look at how the fundamentals are stacking up for CF Industries Holdings Inc (CF). Fundamental analysis takes into consideration market, industry and stock conditions to help determine if the shares are correctly valued. CF Industries Holdings Inc currently has a yearly EPS of -1.40. This number is derived from the total net income divided by shares outstanding. In other words, EPS reveals how profitable a company is on a share owner basis.
Another key indicator that can help investors determine if a stock might be a quality investment is the Return on Equity or ROE. CF Industries Holdings Inc (CF) currently has Return on Equity of -8.91. ROE is a ratio that measures profits generated from the investments received from shareholders. In other words, the ratio reveals how effective the firm is at turning shareholder investment into company profits. A company with high ROE typically reflects well on management and how well a company is run at a high level. A firm with a lower ROE might encourage potential investors to dig further to see why profits arent being generated from shareholder money.
Another ratio we can look at is the Return on Invested Capital or more commonly referred to as ROIC. CF Industries Holdings Inc (CF) has a current ROIC of -1.91. ROIC is calculated by dividing Net Income Dividends by Total Capital Invested.
Similar to ROE, ROIC measures how effectively company management is using invested capital to generate company income. A high ROIC number typically reflects positively on company management while a low number typically reflects the opposite.
Turning to Return on Assets or ROA, CF Industries Holdings Inc (CF) has a current ROA of -1.39. This is a profitability ratio that measures net income generated from total company assets during a given period. This ratio reveals how quick a company can turn its assets into profits. In other words, the ratio provides insight into the profitability of a firms assets. The ratio is calculated by dividing total net income by the average total assets. A higher ROA compared to peers in the same industry, would suggest that company management is able to effectively generate profits from their assets. Similar to the other ratios, a lower number might raise red flags about managements ability when compared to other companies in a similar sector.
Trying to project the day to day short-term movements of the stock market may be all but impossible. Stocks have the tendency to make sudden moves on even the slightest bit of news or for apparently no reason at all. The daily trader may be looking to capitalize on swings or momentum, but the long-term investor may be searching for stability and consistency over a sustained period of time. During trading sessions, stock movements can seem like a popularity contest from time to time. Even after careful study, there may be no logical reason for a particular stock move. Riding out the waves of uncertainty may not be easy, but having a full-proof plan for when markets erode may just be the savior. Having the patience to wait out abnormal moves may help evade the mistake of letting go too soon out of panic.
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How Not To Be A Dick To Your Childfree Friends
Posted: at 6:22 pm
I've decided that bringing a squalling, blood- and pus-covered infant into this world is not for me. I have no major ish with other peoples squalling, occasionally blood- and pus-covered offspring - in fact, I find some of them downright adorable.
Most of us of the childfree persuasion do not recoil in horror at the sight of a binkie, nor do we bathe in the blood of unbaptized babies. We just, you know, dont want babies of our own. This doesnt mean we hate your babies, or cant remember what it was like being a kid, or have no real purpose in life.
But it does mean we occasionally get annoyed at all the strange things people say to us about our lifestyle choices. Thus, I give you a list of Six Strange Things People Say to Childfree-by-Choice People:
1.I thought I didnt want kids, too - but then I grew up.
Other versions of this include, Youll change your mind when you get older or Youll feel differently once youve matured. Or even, Oh youre just going through a phase.
This line of reasoning is scarily similar to things queer people often hear - its just a phase, youll get over it, youre just trying to be edgy/trendy.
But by declaring that your childfree friend will change his or her mind implies two things:
Of course, quite the opposite on both points is often true. Arriving at the decision to never have children - not just maybe not have children or well see about children - is a tough one that typically involves quite a bit of soul-searching and introspection. Not least of which because those of us who make this choice know we are going to be spending the rest of our childbearing years defending our choice.
The conclusion: Self-awareness is a hallmark of maturity, and it takes a lot of self-awareness to choose to remain childfree with eyes wide open. So there.
2. So you must really hate kids, then.
No. No, a thousand times no. Anytime I ever express with even a whiff of certainty to someone that I dont want children (nope, not even adopted ones! Just furry ones, OK?), the next time I speak to them I get gems like this one: So, I know you hate kids, but I was wondering if youd be OK if my niece hung out with us today?
Just to clarify: I said I didnt want to invite a tiny tyrant into my house to live, permanently, holding me hostage to "Blues Clues" and whatever else the kids are watching these days, every day, for the next 18 years. That is a far cry from kicking it with someones rad offspring every couple of weeks.
Just because I dont want a pet lizard or a pair of sky-high Manolos doesnt mean I hate either of those things. Lizards are super-cool! I like that they exist and I appreciate visiting them in the zoo or at friends houses, but I personally prefer a different sort of pet. Manolos are beautifully constructed shoes but alas, my feet just arent suited to that sort of life. Cest la vie - everyones different and differences are good!
3. Youre just selfish.
Despite this statement being a bitter, vitriolic insult, for some reason people feel comfortable saying it to my face when in the kid context. The thing is, no one would call me selfish if I had said, No, Id rather not lend you $241,080 youll never pay back, thanks. ($241,080 is the average cost to raise a child in 2013 according to CNN Money, by the way - and thats not including college tuition.)
So while refusing to lend your friends money or let a stranger borrow your car is just common sense, politely declining to live with and care for an expensive, time-consuming human being that you actually kinda-sorta-no-wait-really dont want? Thats just selfish! (Riiiight.)
If you think critically about it, not having kids - and all the vigilance that entails for many people - is actually a pretty unselfish choice. If you dont want to be a parent, you may not make a very good one in fact, you may wind up resentful and bitter, or even abusive (emotionally or physically).
The mythology surrounding parenthood - self-sacrifice, unpaid and often unappreciated hard labor - goes a long way to support the idea that childfree people are just selfish. But at its core, choosing to have children (and dedicate your life or large part of it to them) is a self-motivated - and therefore selfish - act.
Yes, parenting is hard. And it does require sacrifice and it is underappreciated - but that still doesnt make me selfish or wrong.
4. One day, itll just happen.
This phrase is magical thinking mixed with horrible euphemism, and leaves me feeling a little violated. Its so bizarrely perverted; if you dig beneath the surface, what the person is actually saying is this:
You say you dont want kids now, but one day all those preventative measures youre taking will inevitably fail, and BOOM! Youll have responsibility for a human being you never wanted! Isnt the miracle of life just incredible?
That's just messed up.
And: Saying this to straight people is bad enough. But saying it to queer people? Hilare. Believe it or not, Ive actually had people say this to me, and one day, when Ive had exactly the right amount of martini, Ill respond with: You do know how babies are made, right?
5. So, whats your purpose in life, then?
The idea that people without children have no purpose is deeply disturbing - not just personally, but on a philosophical level. Humor my "woah, dude" moment: If every humans greatest purpose in life is simply just to reproduce, then what are we? Mindless replicating machines? To what end? We have children so that they can have children so that they can have children and nothing anyone does outside of that has any value or worth? I dont want to live in this dystopian world.
It boggles my mind that there are people who think this way, but it comforts me to know that perhaps they havent thought too deeply on the subject. Even profoundly dedicated stay-at-home parents surely measure their worth and guide their lives by multiple criteria, just like the rest of us. Good partner, loving parent, rock-star entrepreneur, environmental activist, kick-ass sister, long-distance Frisbee champion - its a veritable smorgasbord of lifes-purpose choices out there, and limiting yourself to just one thing means youre going to get a heck of a lot less out of life than you otherwise could.
6. But wholl take care of you when youre old?
The state, duh.
I kid, I kid. But seriously, since when is everyones offspring required to sign a legally binding contract that they will care for their parents in their old age? American culture is such that counting on your kids to visit you more than once every few years at the nearest Qwik-E-Retire-Mart they abandoned you at in exchange for your signature on a living will is asking a lot.
I joke, but the state of elder care in our nation is in serious crisis. Sure, some peoples kids grow up to be responsible, caring adults who are financially sound and emotionally mature enough to care for aging parents. But, some peoples kids grow up to be deadbeats, or assholes, or too poor to be able to help much.
Counting on children as a retirement plan is a gamble at best. Best to make other plans, even if you do have kids.
I anticipate these sorts of comments will continue unabated until I hit menopause. Putting up with people questioning my motives and stick-tuitiveness is just a side effect of making a life choice thats a little out of the ordinary.
And thats fine - I feel pretty secure in the knowledge that not wanting my own children is not the same thing as being a heartless, selfish, baby-hating bon vivant. (Im just a regular bon vivant, thank you very much.)
I look forward to a life full of other peoples kids - and being one kick-ass aunt. But I still dont want my own babies - and theres nothing wrong with that.
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Ted Nugent Claims ‘Political Correctness’ Is Keeping Him Out of the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame – Ultimate Classic Rock
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Unlike a number of classic rock artists, Ted Nugent says hed happily accept induction into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame but he says he knows itll never happen, thanks to the self-inflicted and embarrassing scourge of political correctness that permeates the institution from the top down.
Discussing the issue with Q103FM in Albany (during an interview that you can listen to above), Nugent pinpointed his affiliation with the NRA as the main factor keeping him out specifically because Rolling Stone co-founder and publisher Jann Wenner, described by the guitarist as the boss hog at the Rock Hall, hates the gun-rights advocacy group.
I couldnt be more proud of that, cause the NRA is the ultimate family, grassroots organization that fights for the right to defend ourselves. What kind of numb nut would be against that? queried Nugent. And so Im on the board of directors of the NRA, Jan Wenner hates the Second Amendment, so thats the only reason Im not in the Rock and Roll of Fame. And until they get their heads out of their ass, Im more than happy to do what I do and do it with all the vim and vigor that I do it every night.
That being said, Nugent responded with an enthusiastic hell yes when asked whether hed accept induction, and added that hes watched a lot of the induction ceremonies and found them so moving. Were he to eventually make the cut, Nugent said hed lead the crowd in a prayer for their rock n roll forebears a moment he sees as reflecting the Halls true purpose of paying tribute to the genres true greats.
The Rock and Roll Hall of Fame is paying tribute and homage to geniuses who gave us the ultimate soundtrack for our American Dream, said Nugent. Im all in, man, Im genuinely moved, and Im glad there is a Rock and Roll Hall of Fame.
Until then, however, he added that hes happy to remain a member of the We the People Rock and Roll Hall of Fame, a club hes entered by virtue of more than five decades and six thousand shows piled up over a long career. Hey, write this down, he quipped. My name is Ted Nugent. I am the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. Eat me!
Nugent is currently on the road for his Rockin America Again tour. You can get complete tour dates and ticket information at his official site.
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