It breaks my heart to hear this pain and suffering you have gone through, but it sounds like similar symptoms to mouth, jaw and ear cancer that my mother is going through. Also,my mother just underwent surgery for a lesion ( the size of a small lime) on her upper pallet on the inside roof of her mouth. Not to mention, that she suffered for years with head pain, jaw pain ( excrutiating) sinus troubles, severe neck pain, and mostly ear aches. They told her it was "sensative ears",and they told her it was Vertigo. This went on for many years, they gave her pain meds that only harbored the troubles.Now, I am very mad that her doctor(s) could not have found out about the cancer until the lesion showed up.Come to find out after at least ten years with this it was cancer growing inside her ear, jaw and mouth.

Well, I wish you the best, and...... You better get some ear and head xrays from a cancerspecialist and ask for the tests or whatever they do to detect the issues you are having as they sound serious, I am not expert, but hearing your symptoms makes me think, sadly enough, that it can be cancer. I am not trying to alarm you but you should look into a cancer center and have tests.

Now my mom lays in the hospital trying to regain her speech, hearing, sense of smell,sense of dignity, and it is very sad. Also it is sad because she never smoked or drank and took good care of herself for 77 years. And now I cry just thinking that it all started with her having ear aches. We do not take things like that forgranted now, and not only is her life quality of life on the line, she may not be cancer free or even survive this ordeal!!

I wish you the best of luck and go get a head and neck cancer specialist to check you out completlyl!I would demand it we even had to travel out of our area to a cancer treatment center.

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