Some moments embed themselves in your memory. Most people can remember where they were during 9/11the dreadful day thousands of American lives were lost in several terrorist attacks.
Yesterday was one of those moments for me.
Besides my family, my life tends to orbit around three Bs: the Bible, books, and basketball. I love NBA basketballat times, much to my wifes chagrin. As our ministry team closed our worship services yesterday, one of our members delivered me the news: Kobe Bryant died in a helicopter accident.
My stomach dropped. I had more questions than answers.
As the tragic story unfolded, I learned that Bryants 13-year-old daughter, Gianna, and seven other people also lost their lives in the accident. I felt numb all day. I didnt know what to feel.
When the numbness subsided, one thought plagued my mind. What is it about the tragic, untimely death of iconic men and women that causes a collective lament from people from various religious, ethnic, and social backgrounds?
Three things about Kobes life and legacy ring true. And I think they are informativeespecially for believers.
The Changing Narrative on Black Fatherhood
As a father, my heart hurt that Bryant could no longer continue to nourish and develop his growing relationship with his daughter.
While I did not care for Kobe Bryant as a player, I admired him in his retirement as a father. His active involvement in his daughters lives and his presence after missing special moments because of a rigorous NBA schedule was refreshing.
Our country is rife with mischaracterizations about black fatherhood. Kobe had joined the litany of NBA Black father ambassadors to help shape and change the false narrative of fatherlessness in Black and Brown communities.
We lost the opportunity for Bryants story as a father to play out. But we are also reminded of ordinary, everyday, working Black fathers who put the same effort and love into their childrens lives.
It is no secret that we live in racialized times. Dont get trapped in talking point tales that undermine image-bearing men and women. As believers, let us make sure we continue to believe the best about others and not perpetuate stereotypical views that alienate brothers and sisters in the faith.
The Importance of Passion and Drive
As a Christian, I prayed earnestly that those involved had heard and believed the gospel and that my passion for gospel proclamation would never wane.
Bryant was one of the hardest working players in his sport. And it paid off for him. His passion for the game of basketball led him to study it more than any other player in modern history. He didnt want others to remember him as a disinterested member of the NBA, but as an ambassador.
He also served as an ambassador for the womens gamehelping the basketball community acknowledge and honor the work women put in on and off the court. Down to his last game, that passion never wanedhe scored 60 points in his final game.
What about our gospel passion and drive? Temporal trophies and legacy drove Bryants passion. Gospel work tells another story. Gospel work impacts eternal destinies.
Even for veteran Christians, its easy for the passion and drive to subside. It is easy to plod along in life without having shared our message of hope with those around us. My prayer is that Bryants misguided passion for NBA crowns leads us all to a renewed passion for our eternal crown (1 Cor. 9:25).
The Myth of Immortality
As a 41-year-oldthe same age as BryantI was reminded of the words of the writer of the Psalmist: Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom (Ps. 90:12).
In many ways, Bryant appeared immortal. He won five NBA championships and multiple NBA MVP awards. Bryant is going to be an inductee in the basketball Hall of Fame this fall. A mere two years into a new entertainment venture, he won an Oscar Award.
The news of his death shocked the conscience because he oozed invincibility. Many of us scrolled and refreshed our social media timelines yesterday because we found it hard to believe the news. But we may have missed an important moment.
As we peered through the windows of social media, many of us neglected to turn our gaze to the mirror of introspection.
We believe in our immortality, too. Or at least we live that way. We dont maximize the moments with our children the way we should. We procrastinate and put things off because theres always tomorrow.
Why? Because thinking of our mortality makes us reshape our priorities. And reshaping our priorities brings us face-to-face with the reality that we are more selfish than wed like to admit.
National tragedies lead to national conversations. But the most important conversation we all need to have in light of yesterdays news is an internal one.
Have you looked in the mirror of your soul lately? If not, step away from the window for a moment, let the truth of your mortality wash over you, and allow Gods grace to numberand shapethe rest of your days.
John C. Richards, Jr. is a thought-leader, gifted teacher, and gifted writer/speaker. He currently serves as the Pastor of Assimilation at Saint Mark Baptist Church in Little Rock, Arkansas. He is currently pursuing a Ph.D. in Christian Leadership from Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary and previously served as Managing Director of the Billy Graham Center at Wheaton College.
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